“The skill of writing is to create a context in which other people can think.” – Edwin Schlossberg

I’ve been blogging for just over two years and have had an amazing time doing so. Not only has it opened up a lot of doors for my freelancing, but it’s also been so much fun. Sadly, after over a hundred posts, it’s time I said goodbye. Yup, it’s the end of Varsity Blah.

But not to worry; I’ll be transitioning over to an exciting new blog soon (and of course, you’ll all be the first to know). In the meantime, I’ve added a new page with all the posts I’ve written nicely categorised for you to remember or discover for the first time.

I’ve also uploaded a copy of my latest book onto Authonomy, started a page at Self Growth, and created a neat Wordle summary of this site. It’s a great resource for aspiring writers and (with enough support) it could lead to an actual publishing deal! Check it out and let me know what you think. As always, I appreciate it!

Otherwise, I wish you all well. Take care and I’ll talk to you soon!

“Writing is the only profession where no one considers you ridiculous if you earn no money.” – Jules Renard

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There’s nothing like snuggling up indoors with a good book while the rain falls gently outside. It turns out such idyllic images actually exist. While experiencing that joy recently, I got to thinking about how much we can learn from nature.

Seasons

It’s amazing how many aspects of nature work in cycles. After night comes day. After winter comes spring. Even though we should understand this, we still have a tendency to freak out over things like a recession, even though they’ve happened before and will happen again. Accept the darkness because without it there would be no light.

Harvest

Nothing in life happens instantly. It’s like Steven Covey often jokes about how you can’t neglect sowing wheat all summer and then “hit it hard” in the fall. You’ve got to put in early and consistent effort if you want to reap the rewards. You’ve got to stock up for the winter if you want to see yourself through hard times.

Roots

Living with no sense of grounding is like being a leaf completely subject to whatever the random winds are blowing about. Instead, we should strive to be more like trees. After taking a trip back to the house where I grew up, I was amazed to see a tree my dad planted over twenty years ago still standing firm. Even though so much around it had changed, it was still there.

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One of our family friends recently had a baby boy. Getting to meet him for the first time last weekend really got me thinking about how much we have to learn from children. They live their lives a certain way and I think in some sense we should do the same:

Everything is new

Isn’t it amazing how children find even the simplest experiences completely amazing? I’ve seen toddlers completely mesmerised from chasing each other between two pillars at a shopping mall or jumping off a step, climbing back up, and doing it again. The smallest things in life can be really fun. While I’m not suggesting we put everything we come across right into our mouths, we shouldn’t depend on every little gadget or gizmo to make us happy.

Live in the moment

The concept of time is something a lot of young people don’t quite grasp. And I think that’s great. While sometimes it might be necessary for parents to teach that actions now have consequences later (like how spending all their pocket money might mean not getting to buy themselves a new toy) but there’s definitely value in only caring about what’s happening right here, right now. The past is gone and the future isn’t here. Appreciating the present is priceless.

Express your emotions

One other thing children are good at doing is letting their feelings out. Yes, there are the occasional sulks and pouts, but mostly it’s a case of laughing when they’re happy and crying when they’re sad. As we grow older, we find that we constantly need to keep our thoughts and feelings bottled up inside. At times it might be necessary to exercise a little restraint, but I definitely believe that learning to fully express whatever it is you’re going through does far less harm and far more good.

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