With my graduation only a day away, I can’t help but look back at the last four years and reflect on all the things I’ve experienced and learned. For those about to start this chapter in their lives, I humbly offer my advice:

Make friends. One of the best things about varsity is the variety of people you get to interact with. This isn’t high school, where you’re forced to hang out with people who might not float your boat. Now you’re free to mix and mingle with whomever you please. Find people you relate to and whose company you enjoy. And don’t settle for anything less. Time with them will really provide the support and reassurance when the going gets tough.

Get involved. Another great thing about varsity is the broad range of activities on offer. Whatever you choose, from mountaineering to Tai Chi, will provide the perfect opportunity to meet other people and take your mind off the books. Activities also provide a great way to explore your passions (perhaps photography or film) and learn skills that will definitely come in handy down the line. Personally, I’d recommend any form of martial arts. I can’t think of a better way to sharpen both body and mind.

Work hard. As much as you’d prefer to deny it, the reason you’re enrolled is to learn. That means reading ahead of class, participating in lectures, and making sure you do all your assignments on time. And getting to know your lecturers and professors won’t hurt either. They’ll be far more inclined to help you out if they know you in advance.

Read broadly. In this day and age, simply focusing on your course material won’t be enough. What you need to do is train your brain. This is where the library can be your best friend. Stretch your mind by learning about things unrelated to your field. This year I found myself fascinated by evolutionary economics and advances in neuroscience. I’ve also learned to keep up to speed with news and current events; something all adults should do.

Get help. Life at varsity can be tough. I can’t stress enough how important it is to get help as soon as problems start to emerge. If you’re having doubts about your choice of study, someone in the careers centre can help. If you’re stressed out and exhausted from all the work, talk to a doctor. All these resources are meant to ensure you get the most of your studies. You don’t have to get by on your own so don’t even try!

Have fun. Naturally, I’ve saved the best for last. As much as some would prefer to work themselves to the bone, this isn’t smart. Don’t try to be a perfectionist or work to the point that you’re bursting into tears. I’ve seen some of the most resilient individuals break down and some of the most intimate relationships take strain. All this over work! Nothing is more important than your wellbeing. Work hard, play hard, and keep it in perspective. Varsity is meant to be the best time of your life so enjoy it! Any less just won’t do.

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